good morning everybody j.r fisher here good to see
you it is tuesday it's the first of june already we are almost halfway through the entire
year that's crazy hey if you're new here welcome i do these lives each day to help you guys
start running grow online businesses and today i'm going to be talking about why people fail because
some people fail at this matter of fact most people fail and i'm going to share with you why
they fail looking forward to this richard brown says well thank you richard i appreciate it buddy
um i've got a list of things that i've made that what i've seen over the year causes people to fail
and i don't want you guys to fall in that category so i put this list together i think it's a great
idea really just to take notes on this if you can let's see join the 61 clip today 61 clip what is
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doing good um so today i am going to talk about um things that causes people to fail however if
you've got a question anything about you know starting running and growing online businesses i
want you to feel free to put that in the chat box and ask me any questions you want because i
really am here to help you that's what this channel is all about it's just helping people you
know grow their business i have another channel that's going to be starting in probably a month
and a half two months it's going to be a cooking channel i like to cook and i was like you know
what i'm going to do a channel for that too so if you're into that i'll let you know about it i'm
still kind of toying around with the name of it i cook all kinds of different stuff from chinese
to mexican to italian to american to barbecue so i have no idea what direction i'm going to go with
that but i'm going to go some direction with it maybe it'll be how to do this stuff economically
because we all want to do that and you know i cooked some ribs yesterday and i'm not to get
off subject which i already am but i had so much i mean it's like i bought this big slab of ribs
and i've got like five more meals left off this one slab uh because it was so huge but anyhow it
was kind of cool and i could show you the process uh for doing that uh that way you'd have to go out
to the restaurants and pay you know 20 some odd dollars for a tiny little rack of ribs i think
this whole thing cost me like 15 16 bucks and literally it would feed five people uh it was huge
um so it was very inexpensive so maybe i'll go to that route but i do want to talk about why people
fail today um you know i started my business well i've owned a couple businesses in all fairness
uh but i started my online business in 2009. um and from my experience you know a lot of
people think well the reason people fail is they don't have any time and they don't have
money they don't have resources that's not the case from my experience the reason people
fail is that they aren't successful excuse me in business not because they don't have resources
but because of lack of resourcefulness glass of resourcefulness um is the killer okay your
psychology your mindset is going to determine your success more than anything else okay that's what's
really going to determine um you know i've worked with a lot of people over the years and a lot
of them have gone on to make millions of dollars others have made thousands of dollars okay you
know a lot of them have been able to quit their jobs and have freedom um but you know the deciding
factor was how resourceful were they um you know i i get upset when people fail you know because
i work really hard to help people uh and i don't like when they fail so i had to start kind of
looking at why did some of these people fail why wasn't everybody successful now i'm not
your your common one-line trainer and i'm not saying everybody that does my stuff is
gonna be successful that's not true because i don't know what you're gonna do with it you
know i don't know if you're gonna work i don't know if you're gonna put in the time it takes i
don't know if you're gonna put in the effort i don't know if you're gonna get discouraged
i don't know any of these things if if you can overcome these 13 things i'm going to give you
today you probably will be very successful okay so as i go through them i want you to kind of look
at them and say are these things affecting me uh let's see richard brown chimichurri sauce ready
for my barbecue ooh i love chimichurri i love the piece of chimichurri i love the garlic and the
oil and everything uh but anyway i want to make a difference for you guys um and you know i was
working this weekend and i was thinking about that um i was working not because i had to i mean
i've got enough money in the bank you know to pay for my new house you know to pay my bills
you know for years to come but the thing is i i enjoy doing it i like doing it okay um and working
online you can decide you want to make six figures seven figures eight figures um you know i've made
some really good money online over the years and when i started out i didn't know anything i mean
i'm no different than anybody else i didn't know what i was doing i just i had this desire to do
it um so what i'd like to do is kind of go through you know and it is an 80 20 rule thing guys i
want you to think about this eighty percent of the stuff you do is not going to work out okay
uh and i think the first thing that kills people let's see richard brown says if you succeed
that's down to you if you fail that's down to you too yeah people don't want to look at that
though they don't want to go you know i failed on selling stuff on ebay or i failed at selling stuff
on amazon or i failed at my drop shipping business they want to say drop shipping doesn't work they
want to say ebay doesn't work they want to say amazon doesn't work when in fact there's people
making money on all those things right now okay so the first thing the first thing i'll tell you
uh is people who fail don't have confidence in themselves and they lack belief okay they don't
have confidence in themselves and they lack belief i think that is the number one reason out of
all of them you know i'm giving you number one first is if you don't have that uh you don't have
that confidence in yourself and here's the kind of confidence i had when i was looking at selling
online i didn't know anything about selling online i didn't know what to sell i know how to sell it
i mean may have a product but i looked around and i saw there were other people making money online
and they didn't look that much different from me okay they look like a human being you know they
were all races they were all ages they were all different sexes and it didn't matter and i was
like well if they can do it i mean they didn't look like geniuses or anything to me they just
look like people who had figured out things to do and i figured if i could just figure out
the things to do i would probably be okay and there's like so many directions you can go
people's like what should i do to make money online i'm like god news i don't know there's like
a million things you can write a book you could do drop shipping you know you could do coaching
you could you know build websites there's so many things you can do what do you like doing
what do you like doing what is it you want to do so when you think about it first off is have the
confidence look at other people around you and go they're doing it they're doing it okay don't say
things don't work okay that's not true it's never true things do work things work really well and
if they're working for other people they should work for you the number two thing i think i see
is lack of patience uh people want it right now and it's because of the society that the world
has created now where it's this instant success it's not instant success and it's funny you know
i've been to concerts before i was at this one concert and this these two guys you know have
this group and they're really really popular they're hugely popular um and it's like oh my
gosh their breakout group they've done really well and the guy got up on stage and he was like
you know what i've been doing this for 15 years we went to night clubs where there were more
employees there than there were people watches we've worked clubs in a van driving across country
where we would have two or three people there two or three people they were performing in front
of now this particular night they were sold out it was packed wall-to-wall and they were like
don't let this fool you this is not how we started guys you got to be patient you got to trust the
process um i don't know anybody who just invest uh in a training or starts a business and
then all of a sudden it's like they're a super success i don't know anybody like that it
doesn't happen that way most people will fail most people go through setbacks and adversity
along the way but because they're focused on the long term they're patient they're like i'll get
there i'll get there you know when i started my youtube channel um i didn't have any subscribers
and then i had 500 then i had a thousand uh we just broke five thousand and i don't care
i mean i wanna i wanna i don't mean i don't care about subscribers what i mean is i don't care that
i don't have as many as i should have because i'll get there i mean i know i'll get there i just know
i will i know i will because i'll just keep going and if i keep putting up a video every day if
i keep helping you guys every day and i keep growing my audience every day i'll get there
that's how you gotta think you can't say well i want it right now you know i did five videos
where i did 10 videos and they didn't work out well did you try to improve your videos did you
do 20 did you do 100 i mean i would say on youtube if you're trying to do a youtube channel you're
going to have to have 2 300 videos to really get going is it true that some people do 50 50 videos
and it takes off sure probably not for you though because it doesn't work that way okay so that's
the next part uh by the way goya isn't a spanish painter no nagoya's a manufacturer right
for sure uh yes james need to take action uh james breen says goya uh let's see mbw of
course management by walking around i knew that one for from all my management days
let me go ahead and get a little sip here number three is a big one they're lazy that's
it that's it they're lazy you know i talked to a lot of people and they're telling me you know
things didn't work out and i asked them what they did i'm like you haven't put in enough work you
haven't worked hard enough you haven't done enough they're not fully committing themselves to put in
the work that's required to create success they want it takes a lot of work it might success
is not easy you know it's a very lonely road there's a lot of work to do that's why a lot of
people don't achieve success because they're just not willing to put in the work you have to want
it so bad that doing the work is just something you understand you do okay uh today i went and i
worked out yesterday my wife couldn't because she was doing a video and she was painting and all
that but she'll be back today and we both know we got to put in the work you know we're not
going to you know i i'm not going to look like mr atlas okay if i don't put in the work and i'll
probably never look like that that's not the point but the point is i've got to just put in the
work and i'm not going to see results immediately uh you know i've been working out off and on
my entire life so is my son he's he's actually a bodybuilder and going into competition um but
that just takes work and you know you can go into that gym for two months straight and hardly
see anything at all and then one day you see a little incremental increase that's how it is
that's how it is online it takes a lot of work um i've created a lot of success and i'm living a
life that i want at this point okay but i want to create more i want to make more of an impact i
want to do more you know um we're all set for a house in um texas and the money's all lined up
and all that so it's all good but i'm doing a big promotion today it started today uh it'll
go out off at 10 a.m i've been working on the promotion for three weeks three weeks because i
want more okay so you've got to do that you've got to put in the effort uh and a lot of days our days
aren't glamorous we'll eat a sandwich at the house because excuse me we have so much work to do
um you know we don't get dressed up every day you know i do these live things here with a
t-shirt or whatever but the thing is it's not a glamorous life either you know you're going to
think well you know once you're this big online marketer then you're gonna make tons of money
and you have all these people working for you i don't want a lot of people working for me i
don't want that why would you want that now you got to manage them i do have people working for me
um because it's necessary um but it's just it's a matter of me having to work you can't assign it i
see so many people say well i'm going to start an online business and i'm going to hire somebody
to do the website i'm going to hire somebody to do the seo and i'm going to hire somebody to find
me some products and i'm going to hire somebody to run this thing for me and i'm just going to sit
back and enjoy the money it doesn't work that way it doesn't work that way in a restaurant it
doesn't work that way in a hair salon it doesn't work that way online it doesn't work that way you
can't hire yourself into success all these people that you hire are going to way overcharge you
probably uh and if not you know they're still not going to know how to run a business you ultimately
have to do it you ultimately have to put in the time okay number four and that kind of since i
was talking employees it kind of brings me to this new people try to do everything themselves
new people try to do everything themselves this is the next reason people fail and this is a
big one they try things on their own uh and doing things on your own is just kind of stupid okay
if if you say well i want to make money online but i don't want to pay for one of jr's courses
or i don't want to pay for joe blows courses that's just dumb that's just dumb for you to try
to figure it out on your own if i have figured out how to do something and i'm willing to tell
you for a fee you know hey take my course you want to learn facebook ads take my course on this
you want to learn emails take my course on this you know you want to learn survival i have
a course on that take my course on this why would you go and try to figure out everything
that's taken me years to figure out on your own why would you do that you're like well i don't
spend any money on it well that's just dumb you can't do it on your own you can't i have bought
a lot of course i spent ten thousand dollars recently for a course on youtube ads 10 grand
okay and i've been doing this for over 10 years i'm still buying education i still read books i
still learn stuff i look i watch people's videos i learn stuff every day that's another
thing you got to do give me another sip here let's see jr you have the slight edge it's
mirrored in jeff olson's the slight edge incremental advances over time yeah i
mean that's what it is i don't expect big things every day i've had a lot of big things
but it's because of this little bit of work i'm doing constantly tony robbins says beliefs and
modeling are important 100 and that's one of the steps i'm going to talk about uh in just a
second and that is i'm still going through this um number five i've got something else number five
is having unbelievable unrealistic expectations unbelievable unrealistic expectations another
reason people fail a lot is they have this crazy unrealistic expectations um this kind
of goes back to number two when i mention uh and number three lacking patience people get
caught up in this short term thinking mentality because that's kind of how our world is nowadays
they want to get rich quick okay and it doesn't work that way it doesn't have some people done
that yes and some people pull the slot handle in vegas and they win a million dollars but the odds
of you doing that are not good you could pull that slot handle a million times and probably still
not win a million dollars the results is that um you know i'm just going to start a business
or whatever and i'm going to make millions of dollars i'm going to make hundreds of thousands
of dollars instantly it's not going to happen guys if it was that easy everybody would be rich
and successful think about it everybody would be it's not easy oftentimes you know i've done videos
on this where i'll recommend that people's first goal is to make a dollar uh one dollar but now i
was lucky when i first started i made ten dollars ten dollars i got a ten dollar sale i didn't make
a profit i made a ten dollar sale though and i was so excited i ran in the living room i was a single
dad my kids were little at the time and i said hey i made ten dollars and i didn't exactly say that
i said hey i sold something online and they were like oh my god that's great they were like how
much did you sell i said ten dollars and they looked at each other like i was insane they were
like ten dollars dad that's not a lot of money i mean you know that's like our allowance but the
point was i was able to make ten dollars and if i could make ten dollars i could do that again and
again and again and i could increase that amount and that's what ultimately happened understanding
um that you've got to have realistic expectations if you're brand new if you're a newbie to
something you can't expect the results of somebody that's more experienced than you now the only way
you're going to get better results is maybe listen to somebody who's done it you know i have training
so i you know train people how to do that stuff um someone that's maybe already been in the
business of building a business or life you know somebody who has a background or more
experience with computers or technology which i do now but i didn't before um so that's
kind of cool uh what's most important is you have to have realistic goals for yourself so to
make a dollar or ten dollars or something like that that's a good goal that's good if you can do
that that's really good all right so there's no program there's no business that you can just
invest in where you don't have to do any work stop that way of thinking stop that way of
thinking next thing number six is the big one people don't want to invest any money they don't
invest the money they're like i want to make money online but i don't want to spend anything i want
to do it without any money you know one of my most viewed videos is how to make money online
with no investment and it's funny because i tell them in the video you do have to invest you do
have to spend money uh let's see here i have my first dollar frame on my office wall good for
you richard i couldn't because mine was online but whatever it was online um copy them yes
copy those people do that uh another reason um i'm gonna move this a little bit faster
because you know i've got so many things to say today and i'm really really on this today
but people are looking to cut corners they're afraid to invest here and there they're
afraid to buy a course or read a book you know spend the money spend some money i
mean if you went out and started a restaurant what would that cost you you've got
no guarantees of being successful as a matter of fact most restaurants fail most do
as do most people online but the difference is in restaurants you have to invest in equipment
and stuff you've got to put some money into it online you can get started pretty cheap but invest
in the training learn how to do these things guys you know especially from somebody who knows what
they're doing you know buy their training figure out what they did you know just do the same thing
um you know in a restaurant you're gonna have to spend maybe a hundred thousand dollars or fifty
thousand dollars and take out loans okay you don't have to do that online you can buy some courses
for 500 bucks or a thousand bucks and they can really help you along number seven they try to cut
corners and find loopholes that's the next thing while they're doing this they're actually hurting
themselves because they're not learning things it's not going to last if you look at long-term
sustainable strategies not the short-term loopholes people are always obsessed with that
they're looking to get rich quick they're looking for hacks they're looking for things like that
for me it's a lot of short-term loopholes in my business there are short-term loopholes like
you can rank your youtube videos i work on that you can attract more people to the
search engines you can make more money uh but you know that's short term okay like i said
it's going to do more things for you if you do it right okay if you don't look for these hacks um
i don't want to cheat the system okay i don't want to try to beat the youtube hack you know i
try to you know our youtube algorithm or hack it i look at what youtube wants what do they want
they want quality content they want a video that's over eight minutes long they want you to
put your tags in there so they can help people find your videos they want to have a title that
actually matches the video if you do all these things over time you'll do okay over time but it
takes time you know you can't hack it number eight this is a great one they learn from the wrong
people there are a lot of people out there that are teaching you how to make money online or so
they say they are let me see a comment here uh they want to be uh they want an out before they're
in yes they do they do um but this one here number eight we're learning from the wrong people oh my
god i see this all the time uh a lot of people that i work with they invest in my training and
i'm trying to help them create success and then they're learning from somebody else that you know
is telling them that they're gonna get rich quick uh i've created a lot of success i've done very
well in this uh but and i've built a lot several businesses success in several businesses
and i've made millions of dollars right now millions it's kind of crazy right i remember
thinking when i was a kid a million dollars well you know you were living in a palace and you
had you know all these rolls-royce limousines all that million dollars ain't much money uh
but we've done multiple millions of dollars uh and i've done it because i've learned from the
right people and sometimes it would be a 18 year old who was telling me something about my website
sometimes it would be a 45 year old but you've got to learn from people who really have done
this and are still doing it and that's the key there's so many people out there let's say sell
a course on drop shipping uh and they don't drop ship anymore they just sell courses well how are
you gonna stay on top of it how you gonna know what you're doing uh and i don't know that you
really even know that much why'd you quit doing it you're gonna make more money on drop shipping than
you're gonna make selling courses why'd you quit something's wrong with that make sure you learn
from people who are still doing the same thing i sell products online every day i'm doing
it today i have a promotion going out today so if you want to learn how to sell products
i think i'm a decent person to learn from again that comes with a downside of not trusting
the process okay you're looking for the quick fix guy you're looking for the guy that's
shooting dollar bills out of a you know a gun i've seen that and screaming and yelling
and saying oh my god you're going to get rich that person you need to run from you really do
because that's not realistic that's not real life that's going to make you feel good for a minute
and then when you buy his thousand dollar course you're gonna find out that you're selling his
stuff uh and i know several people that do that uh the next thing is number nine don't listen
to advice from successful people people forget and they don't listen to advice from successful
people that's what you got to do they don't listen to successful people because the successful people
the people that really know it aren't telling them what they want to hear they're telling them they
got to work right this is where people save their ego they're closed-minded they're too proud they
think they know it all they think they don't have to listen to anybody i don't care if somebody's 25
years old if they're successful in doing something i want to do i'm going to listen to them and so
should you this is another important reason that people fail i've worked with people coach them and
i'm trying to help them but they're arguing with everything i tell them to do because it's hard and
they're like i don't want to do this hard thing i don't want this you can't help somebody like that
if they don't have an open mind if they're not willing to do the work i tell them to do if they
don't trust you they don't trust the process and the process is hard that's why they don't want
the process they have the experience they've been going at it for years if they've already
been doing it okay they've created the results not just with themselves but with countless other
people that's what i've done okay so it drives me nuts when somebody just won't listen they
will listen i see this time and time again with people even when they invest in my training i have
certain things i say i say okay do this do this do this do this and i guide them step by step through
the things they need to do and i'm blown away away by how many people that don't even listen to it
they don't watch the videos they don't go through it they don't do the steps and they expect results
it's craziness uh let's see here um yes they still no yes still doing it so important uh they're
very important if they've quit doing it there's a reason for that uh they don't like when successful
people are honest with them very true how do we decide which course seller is worth following uh
well you know that's up to you i always say google them you know google put their name in google put
in their scam ripoff we'll see what you find look look up the people now keep in mind some people
are just gonna have bad things written about because they're trolls or something like that but
i think i'd say also look at longevity how long have they been online uh i've been online since
2009 i've been selling successfully online since 2009 how long have they been doing it um so that's
the thing you've got to listen to these people who have already done it okay um that's so important
there weren't that many people for me to focus on when i started i had to make a lot of mistakes
myself because there weren't a lot of people doing training back then quite honestly training does
not make me the majority of my money the majority of my money comes from selling products um i like
doing training but you know just doing training if somebody's just doing training they don't have
that many skills i'm telling you because there's so many other ways to make money and training is
not the biggest one let me get another sip here number 10 they're scattered they're scattered the
next thing that causes people to fail is they're scattered they don't focus on one thing they get
easily distracted by what i call the shiny object syndrome so there's so many opportunities
out there to build a business to make money that oftentimes people get distracted they're
doing one thing they're building their business and then there's this other opportunity comes
up and they turn and they start working on that they jump from one business to another business to
another business and again it comes down to people not seeing results fast enough they want these
quick results they're not going to come quick they're focused on the short term they're not
having the patience and focusing on the long term but you have to focus you got to stay focused
on one thing i tell people when you sign up for my courses and my training unsubscribe from
anybody and everybody else that's going to distract you because if you keep jumping
out there and looking at different things you can't focus on what i'm training you
on it's only going to do you a disservice um you don't need to be on 100 people's
email list because they're going to market and promote the different opportunities that
they're trying to sell and if you're going in all these different directions you're not
going to devote enough time to one thing if if mine isn't the thing then find somebody else
but you know you've got to focus on it you've got to focus on what you're doing you got to say
no to everything else you've got to learn to say no and focus say i am doing this thing okay
i'm doing this thing i get opportunities all the time every day i have people that want to sponsor
videos they want me to do stuff on their products they want me to coach them they want me to call
them uh and i stay focused on what i need to do they're sharing this business opportunity they're
like oh my gosh you've got to check out this business opportunity on on cryptocurrency and
no i'm like no i'm busy with what i'm working on and i need to stay focused on it they want me to
do this do that i got to ignore all that because i've got my own goals things that i'm working
on this is what i've committed to number 11 they can't handle failure and adversity they can't
handle failure and adversity guys part of success is failure it's always been that way it'll
always be that way that's not going to change uh how do we just soar okay i went to that one uh
my problem scattered my problem to be honest yes and just stop that if you know what your problem
just stop it and say hey i'm gonna focus on this one thing until i get good at it and that's what
i basically did i focused on singular things now i have a whole bunch of different things but i
had to make a profit a thing once i started it i had to make a profit at it once i made a
profit at if i wanted to you know veer off and look at something else i could do that but i
had to make a profit at it really important to me how about paralysis of analysis yes yes they keep
looking at stuff and keep reading stuff and keep taking courses that's another thing but a lot
of people can't handle failure they just can't um there's no such thing as success without
failure doesn't exist everybody that is successful today has gone through failure everybody i don't
care who they are i don't care who they are they've gone through challenges adversities
setbacks part of the process you've got to realize is failure a lot of people might think you
know to be their first time starting a business you never encountered failure because you've had
a job and there's just really no failure sometimes in the job you show up every day and you're going
to get paid you have that security you just show up eight hours you get paid for your time doesn't
matter what you're doing in many cases right so when you have a business you don't get paid for
your time it's not like that you get paid based on the results that you produce so like today i'm
sending out these emails i think it's going to go out to about 15 000 people something like that
and i'll share some of his results with you um but um i'm gonna get paid based on how well i
wrote those emails based on how well i built that sequence based on how well i i did those sales
pages those upsells those down sells the follow-up the pop-ups all the things i did and i built the
entire thing i had zero help on it nobody wrote copy for me nobody did artwork for me nobody did
graphics for me and i'm i'm 11 years into this and people want to go out there and have other
people do all this stuff for them i'm 11 years into this i'm still doing it a lot of people don't
have what it takes because they're so sensitive they take failure personally i see this this
this personally thing now with comedy it's like everybody's afraid to even tell a joke because
they're afraid of offending somebody i don't care you're if you're a comedian and i'm a little off
track here but if you're a comedian you can say whatever you want i think you have the license to
say whatever you want or some of the things they say offensive to me might be to somebody else
might be but the point is they have a right to say anything they want and if the public doesn't
like what they're saying they won't listen that's how that should be judged people are too sensitive
nowadays goodness gracious you're going to have to go to the edge a little bit if you're doing comedy
um and i see joe rogan opening a comedy club now in austin and i'm gonna be one of the first people
there because you know what every now and then i get offended but i don't care i mean that's their
job is to be on that edge you know comedians should be offensive comedians make money making
fun of people in situations that's what they do that's what they do but we're so sensitive in our
societies now it's so ridiculous okay just be a good person and quit being so sensitive okay let's
see edison declared that he discovered 10 000 ways how not to make a light bulb you know what i don't
doubt that i've heard he's had tremendous failures but the thing is you don't really fail how can
you fail if you're still trying you can't be a failure if you're still trying right i mean i
you know i guess i failed at cell phone case sales because i didn't make a profit but i learned
from it and i sold other items so was it a failure i don't think so there's a difference between
somebody who's successful and somebody who fails the failure lets the failures in their
life define them they say that's what i am i'm failure they get discouraged they give up
because of those failures the successful person still fails probably just as much as the failure
person does probably even more the difference is he or she doesn't define them as failures
he just views them as opportunities to learn and actually sees them as a good thing number
12 now we're doing okay on time i'm a little bit over i hope you'll stick with me on this um fear
of rejection okay so all right i'm i'm back to reason 12.
Why most people fail is that they care
too much about whatever other people think of them they have a fear of rejection now listen in
order for you to create success in your life and your business there's always going to be
people that disagree with you it's going to happen there's always going to be people that make fun
of you they are going to doubt you that you're not going to be a success they're going to be
negative they're going to try to hold you back from creating success because if you're successful
and they're not what does that say about them if you notice once you become successful that's
not going to go away you're deluding yourself okay because the more successful you become the more
people will dislike you there's a lot of people that will like you yeah and love you but also that
comes with a lot of people that will dislike you they're jealous they're haters the people that are
going to be negative are people who don't want you to succeed because they're not successful they're
going to try to pull you down because they feel insignificant that's just the way it is there's
two ways to have the tallest building in town number one build the tallest building in town
number two tear down everybody else's building right and we know people like that right they go
around they say well i'm gonna turn down everybody else's buildings that's the way it is um you
know i've been doing youtube videos now for a little while and i have people who really
really enjoy it and then i have people who slam me they slam my looks they slam the way i
talk they slam the way i dress they slam the way i edit everything they slam me and i don't care i
just don't care because if you've got time to put something negative online that's really what your
persona is you've got time to type negative things okay i don't have time to type negative things i
only have time to type positive things that's all i got time for okay i only get so much time
in a day i get to decide how much spend it that's how i decide to spend it and now we're
down to number 13 let me get a sip here real quick let's see here it's just depends on how you
interpret what happens very very true number 13 some people have limiting or negative mindsets
limiting or negative mindsets okay this is another reason why a lot of people fail they
have this limiting belief or negative mindset attitude it's very important this kind of goes
back to what i shared earlier low self-esteem a negative attitude i see people like this
they're just negative about everything if you're always looking for what's wrong you're
going to find it i promise you you're going to find it whatever you're looking for you're going
to find if you're looking for positive things you're going to find it in every situation
there's good and there's bad it's true it's very true uh it's all how you interpret it and the
meaning you create this goes without being said um you just can't have a negative attitude
about things you can't you've got to be positive and i catch myself every now and then saying
something negative and i say hey that's wrong stop that they'll do that there's no point
in ever seeing saying anything negative ever ever there's no point you can't sell me on
talking negative and why it's going to help you you can't sell me on that look i challenge you
put it in the put it in the comments put it in the chat you tell me why saying negative things is
going to help you in life i guarantee you it won't so i find that i if i work on that i'm better off
okay if people have that attitude they need to work on that attitude first that's the first thing
they need to do because their mindset is going to control what's going to happen before they build
a business you got to work on your mindset you got to change that stuff if that's your attitude your
mindset is negative then i recommend you read some books on being positive that you start to feed
your mind with some more positivity you work with a part of yourself that's going to hold you back
because you're going to need it to be successful you cannot be negative and be successful online
not going to happen another reason why a lot of people fail going back to that is limiting beliefs
was part of that and maybe you were raised that way maybe you got your identity and beliefs from
people you hung out with your parents a lot of the beliefs that you have are self-sabotaging your
success if you have a belief that you want to be successful but you have another belief that says
you don't want to put your work in or you just want short term results it's not going to work i
see how they're conflicting there that's what's called an inner conflict one belief is positive
one belief is negative they counteract each other and they're going to pull you in two different
directions so you've got to really identify and limit your beliefs in that negative area you
got to be positive even in the face of adversity even when things are bad i go back to um i saw
you put in there think and grow rich richard unfortunately um he has some good stuff in
the book i'm not gonna say he doesn't but if you google scam um napoleon hill you're
gonna find out that he ran from the law he did a lot of scammy things and he never really
did provide any proof that he ever interviewed any of the steel magnets he said he did but if you
google his name napoleon hill scam you're going to find all this he was in a lot of trouble with
the law and though a lot of the things in the book sound like good affirmations and things you should
do he is a person made up a lot of stuff he was he was kind of a huckster in a way and a lot of
people don't realize that we all quote from his book and all that but we don't look into his
background and his background was very edgy and what the book is based on with these
interviews with these rich people is not true it's never been proven that he interviewed anybody
so do check that out not not saying uh anything bad about that but yeah uh stop tolerating the
naysayers and negative people yeah you're gonna get away from them even if they're family people
say what if they're family i said well just don't hang out with them as much they can still be
family but you have to spend the majority of your time with them you can't do that so that's what
i got for you today guys those are the 13 things that i think really hold people back
that prevent people from being successful if you're watching this live or if you're
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thanks re mr hill yes this is something you may want to check out just google it you'll see what
i mean there's been several articles written on it and i hope this helps you out guys if this does
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